Monday, July 26, 2010

Dealing With Recurring Sin

This is a long article by an unknown author, but it is worth the read!



I.  WALKING IN THE SPIRIT

It is God Himself who sanctifies us as we walk in the Spirit moment by moment.  But He has given us instruction in His word as to how that process takes place.  The following principles are guidelines for walking in the Spirit in problem areas.

            A.  Willingness – not Will-power

           It is in areas of recurring sin that we are the most tempted to implement self-improvement 
           programs – with a subtle “we try harder” approach to conquering the problem. God does not 
           ask us to “try harder”, which implies struggle.  He only asks that we admit that it is sin,   
           confess it and surrender complete control of the problem to Him.

            Surrender, according to Webster’s Dictionary, means to “yield or hand over to the power of 
            another; to resign; to cease resistance”.  We are to surrender our natural desire to have our 
            own way and to think our own thoughts, which is rebellion, and surrender to God’s authority 
            in our lives.

            Avoid repression:
           
            Repression of wrong thoughts or actions by sheer will-power simply leads to an explosion 
            of the problem when our resistance is down.  Earl Radmacher gives an excellent illustration 
            of this principle.  Visualize a pot boiling over a fire and steam coming out of the pot. 
            Racmacher says that the steam of behavior is visible proof that the fire of thought is boiling 
            the pot of emotion.  If we are dissatisfied with the behavior, our tendency is to slam a heavy 
            lid on the pot.  But that merely results in a big explosion when the lid blows off.  God’s 
            solution is to cool the fires of thought.

            B.  You have a new mind in Christ.

            Ultimately our life is an expression of what we think about.  As a man thinks in his heart, 
            so is he.  Prov.23:7

            In Romans 7 Paul talks about his struggle with the flesh. Then in Romans 8 he breathes a 
            sigh of relief to know that there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus and   
            who walk in the power of His Spirit.  He goes on to describe how the Spirit-filled Christian  
            thinks. In verses 5,6 and 7, he says that those who walk according to His Spirit get their minds 
            on the things of the Spirit.  Just as our lives are an expression of our thoughts, so the life of 
            Christ is the expression of His mind.  As one writer put it:

His mind is now ours by endowment.  We have the mind of Christ – but now as we mature, it must become ours by development.  Otherwise we will experience a constant struggle against the promptings of an un-Christ-like mind.
Norman B Harrison

Don’t let the world squeeze you into its mold:

            Before coming to know Christ, or learning how to walk in the Spirit, we developed some 
            deeply ingrained thought patterns which were conformed to the world system of values; 
            i.e., if it feels good, do it; or, if it tastes good, eat it!

            Walking in the Spirit is the exact opposite of being conformed to the world.  Romans 12:1,2 
            says that we are to not be conformed to this world, but to be transformed by the renewing 
            of our minds, that we may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable 
            and perfect. 

            Brainwashed with Scripture:

            We need to saturate our minds with the truth in the areas where we are easily tempted and 
            easily deceived – literally, brainwashed by Scripture.  Paul says in Colossians 3, “if we’ve been 
            raised up with Christ, we need to keep seeking the things above where Christ is, seated at the 
            right hand of God.  Set your mind on things above, not on things that are on the earth.”

            C.  Prayer and praise

            In any area we know to be the will of God we can pray with complete confidence that He 
            will hear and answer (1 John 5:14-15).  Pray specifically that God will alert you, through 
            the power of the Holy Spirit the moment that wrong thinking begins so that you can 
            immediately say no to wrong thoughts and yes to right ones.

            A trap that we can easily fall into is that of forgetting the countless blessings in our lives 
            and focusing on the one restriction.  That was satan’s tactic with Eve in the garden.  Praise, 
            however, is the great antidote to that malady.  Praise turns our attention to all that we are 
            and have in Christ Jesus and thanks Him in advance for the victory.  Greater is He that is 
            in us than he that is in the world!” (1 John 4:4).

            D.  Jesus wants to meet your needs

            The word “tempt” means to entice, to do wrong by promise of pleasure or gain.  We are 
            most vulnerable to temptation when we have some kind of need for “pleasure or gain”.  
            We may feel tired, frustrated, rejected, unappreciated, angry, overworked or simply that 
            we “deserve a break today”.  Or we may be excited and feel like celebrating, believing the 
            subtlety that “you only go around once in life…so grab all the gusto you can”. 

            Whatever we need or however we feel, we’re tempted to take the path of least resistance 
            to comfort and pleasure – only to discover that the problem simply multiplies.

            The moment wrong thinking begins, we need to ask, “What do I really need?”  Then turn 
            to Jesus and ask Him to meet it.  Expect that our Father will meet our needs because He 
            has promised to do so.  Phil.4:1.

            E.  You can have victory over temptation

            Temptation is common to man and temptation itself is not sin.  Here it is important to 
            remember God’s commitment to us as found in 1 Cor.10:13:

“No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able; but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, that you may be able to endure it.”

 Whereas once we habitually entered into temptation, we can now habitually take God’s 
 promised way of escape.

            Jesus exemplified what it means to take the way of escape when He was   tempted in the 
            wilderness.  He was tempted to turn the stones into bread and thereby meet His own needs  
            His own way, rather than trusting the Father to meet them.

            His immediate response to temptation was to submit to the Father’s will by redirecting His 
            thoughts to what was true rather than how He felt.  He answered the tempter by saying, 
             “It is written…”

            In the same way, the moment the Holy Spirit alerts us to wrong thinking, we can choose to 
            submit our will to God’s and redirect our thoughts to what is true, rather than how we feel.  
            Often there will be a momentary resistance to submit our will to God’s because of man’s 
            natural tendency to exert his own will.  All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful 
            but sorrowful. But afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.” (Heb.12:1). It is 
            interesting to note that it was after Jesus submitted to God’s word that the angels came and 
            ministered to Him. 

 “All we do is throw the switch by saying ‘No’ to wrong thoughts and ‘yes’ to right ones. And the energy from His enormous source of power flows through us and energizes us to do the very thing we want to do and that He wants us to do.” 
Dr. George Sanchez
  

 II.  OBSTACLES TO WALKING IN THE SPIRIT IN PROBLEM AREAS

            A.  Discouragement

            One common problem that arises is in the area of discouragement. Discouragement is one 
            of the number one problems in the Christian life.

            If we can recognize discouragement for what it is, perhaps we can deal with it more 
            objectively.  Hannah Smith tells the allegory of satan calling together a council on how to  
            defeat Joe Christian.  The most effective idea presented was that of the imp who said, “I 
            will discourage his soul.”  “That will do it”, satan said triumphantly.  (James 1:13-15)

 Discouragement never has its source in God, because discouragement is the exact opposite if faith – believing God.  The problem is not that we face an unconquerable problem but discouragement causes us to believe that it is – and we become convinced that victory is not possible.
 
B.  Focusing on the problem

            Obstacles come in many ways, shapes, and forms – most of them subtle.  Another common 
            one is when we focus on the problem.  This is especially true immediately after we   
            experience defeat and are acutely aware of the problem. We need to remember that 
            whenever we do sin, “we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous”.   
            (1 John 2:1).  We are not to make resolutions that it will never happen again, but simply 
            confess the sin and move on “fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith.” 
            (Heb.12:1-2).

            C.  Focusing on ourselves

            Another common obstacle is that of focusing on ourselves and our own inability to deal 
            with the problem.  Looking at our own weaknesses we naturally become discouraged.  But 
            God wants to bring us to the point where we can see our own weaknesses revealed and not 
            be discouraged, but simply realize that our adequacy is not in ourselves but in Christ.  Paul   
            says, “Not that we are adequate in ourselves to consider anything as coming from ourselves, 
            but our adequacy is in Christ” (2 Cor.3:3).  God never encourages people as to their own  
            ability to handle a task or deal with a problem.  He simply reminds us of our total sufficiency 
            in Him.  The following promises are examples:

            Behold, I am the Lord, the God of all flesh; is anything too difficult for Me?”  (Jer. 32:27)

There is no temptation which has overtaken you that is not common to man.  But God is faithful and will, with the temptation provide a way of escape that you may be able to endure it.”  (1 Cor.10:13)

If we ask anything according to His will, He hears us and if we know that He hears us, we know that we have the requests which we have asked of Him.”    (1 John 5:14-15)

            For nothing will be impossible with God.”  (Luke 1:37)

Maturity in these areas takes time – it is a life-long process.  However, a concentrated application of these principles can help us understand them more clearly and begin a habit of applying God’s principles for a lifetime.

Monday, July 19, 2010

Five reasons to let go of hurt


The following is an adapted article by Rick Warren:

All of us have been hurt - by what people have said about us, thought about us, or done to us. Many of us carry deep wounds from hurts in the past - whether from a parent, a partner, a peer, or someone else. Someone in our life wounded us deeply.
If you haven't let go of those hurts, you need to. If you and your [group] really want God's best, you're going to have to let those hurts go. How? There's only one antidote to painful memories - forgiveness. Nothing else can set you free from the past.
[When we don’t deal with hurt, we become] people who are dying inside because of resentment. [We'll] never move forward spiritually. [We'll] never find [our] place in ministry. [We’ll] never find the unique mission God has for [us] in life because [we’re] letting resentment eat [us] up inside.
 
So why should we forgive? Let me give you five reasons.
  1. God has forgiven you.
You will never have to forgive anyone more than God has already forgiven you. God forgives completely, unconditionally, and constantly. The Bible says this in Ephesians 4:32 (NLT), “Be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.”
You know why you have a hard time forgiving other people? You don't feel forgiven yourself. When you don't feel forgiven, you don't feel like forgiving. When you don't feel God's grace, you don't feel like being gracious to anyone else.

Once you understand how completely God has forgiven you, you're going to be a lot more forgiving of other people. If you want to help your people begin to release the hurts they're hanging onto, you've got to help them receive God's grace.
  1. Resentment causes pain.
Resentment is always self-destructive. It always hurts you more than it does the person you're resenting. Pastor, help your congregation understand that resentment won't work. Job showed us that. He lost everything in a single day. Terrorists came in, killed all his kids, stole all of his cattle, ruined his crops, and he got a terrible disease. Everything went wrong. If anyone had a right to be bitter about the circumstances of life, Job did. But he didn't get resentful. He knew that resentment doesn't work.
  
Job said, “To worry yourself to death with resentment would be a foolish, senseless thing to do” (5:2 GN).
   
Resenting a person is like taking a shotgun, pointing it at yourself, pulling the trigger, and hoping to hurt your enemy with the kick of the recoil. 
  1. Resentment can continue your pain for years. 
When you rehearse the pain someone has caused you in the past, you allow them to continue to hurt you over and over again. Some of you are allowing people who've hurt you deeply in the past to continue to hurt you in the present. That's stupid. They can't hurt you any more. Your past is past. They cannot hurt you unless you allow them to by resenting them. 
  
The Bible also says in the book of Job, “Some men stay healthy until the day they die... others have no happiness at all; they live and they die with bitter hearts” (21: 23-25 GN).
  1. Resentment is unhealthy.
Research has shown that the most unhealthy emotion known to human beings is bitterness. God didn't not make our bodies to carry guilt or resentment. If you don't talk it out with God, you're going to take it out on your body. When you swallow your anger, your stomach, your back, and your neck keep score.
 
Many of the people in our churches are really careful about eating healthy and getting plenty of exercise. But if won't matter a bit if they don't get rid of the resentment. In the end, it's not what you eat that matters as much as what eats you.
  1. You will need more forgiveness in the future.
Forgiveness is a two-way street. Jesus said in Matthew 6:14-15 (NIV), “For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” He says we cannot expect to receive what we are unwilling to give. God says you cut other people some slack, and God will cut you some slack. 
 
When you pray in the Lord's Prayer, “Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.” Do you realize what you're saying when you pray that prayer? You're saying, “God, I want you to forgive me as much as I forgive everybody else.” Wow! Do you really want to pray that prayer? That's the standard God sets. 
 
It's a tough standard. But it's God's standard.
 

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

The Basics Of Lordship

This is an article by Eric Swanson, a staff member with Campus Crusade for Christ:



 It has been said that the Christian life is this:  “All that I am is available to all that He is.  All that He is, is available to all that I am.”  Unless I have yielded all that I am to Him, all that He is will not be available to me.  Yielding our lives to Christ is the logical response to who God is and what He has done for us.  Jesus is Lord – whether we acknowledge Him as so or not.  In order to experience His power in our lives we need to acknowledge and respond to His lordship.  Recognizing Jesus as Lord means that everything I know about myself is yielded to everything I know about Him.  It signifies that He has all of me and all that I am is consciously yielded to Him.

I.  Understanding what it means to yield our lives to Christ:
           
            What is meant by the Lordship of Christ?
                       
Luke 6:46                                         2 Corinthians 5:15
                       Colossians 1:15-18                         2 Corinthians 5:10

Romans 12:1-2 [Note:  The word “present” or “yield” signifies a “one time action”.   It implies a point in time when we say to the Lord that we are willing to live under His lordship – to be what He wants us to be and to do what He wants us to do.  The word “reasonable service” or “spiritual service” means “logical” – to give ourselves wholly to Him is the only logical thing to do.]
                         
Romans 6:13 [Note:  The word “present” or “yield” denotes a regular or continuous action.  It signifies that daily we present ourselves to the Lord to be used in any way He chooses.] 

Even though Christ died for us, has forgiven us from all our sins, has promised never to leave us, and has promised to take us to heaven, why do you think most Christians don’t make Jesus Lord of their lives by yielding their lives to Him?

Before any person would completely yield his life to Christ he would have to be convinced of at least two things: 

            1) that Christ has his best interests at heart, and

            2) that He has the ability and power to carry out those best 
                 interests.

If we really don’t trust Jesus Christ, we’ll never really yield our lives to Him.

What do the following verses say about God’s love and power?

            Romans 8:32                            Jeremiah 31:3
            1 John 4:10                               Jeremiah 32:17

II. How we can make Jesus Lord of our lives:

Deciding to live under the Lordship of Jesus Christ is both a one-time action (Romans 12:1) and a progressive and conscious yielding to Him as God discloses areas of our lives that He wants control of.  In his booklet, “My heart, Christ’s home”, Robert Munger explains what it means to yield our lives to Jesus Christ in this way:  “When we receive Christ it is as if we invite Him into our home – to be a guest in our living room.  After a while He says, ‘I want to go into the kitchen.’  Soon He asks to take over the family room, the den, the bedroom, the closets, attic and basement… everywhere.”  The Lordship of Christ begins when we tell the Lord that He has free access into every area of our lives.  Little by little the Holy Spirit reveals to us those areas that He wants to reign over.  Our part is to simply relinquish those areas to Christ as He discloses them to us.  This is a normal part of Christian growth.

The following is a list of some of the areas that Jesus wants to be Lord in:

My time
My habits
My finances
My family
My hobbies
My job/school
My friends
My thoughts
My future
My possessions
My life partner
My sexuality
My plans
My health
My words
My life goals


The major issue to be settled is not just getting our act together in these areas.  Rather it is determining who will reign supreme in my life – the Lord Jesus Christ or me? 

The following is a suggested prayer that may reflect your desire to make Jesus Christ the Lord of your life:

“Lord Jesus, I thank You that You love me so much that You died on the cross for me.  Because of Your love and all You have done for me, I completely yield my life to You – everything I am and everything I have.  I’m willing to receive what You give, lack what You withhold, desire what You desire, do what You want me to do, and be what You want me to be.  Amen.”

[A couple of extra notes:  the word “Lord” means:  master, owner; the one who has disposal of everything; the one to whom service is due on any ground; the one who has absolute ownership and uncontrolled and unmanipulatable power.


[Going back to the definition of ‘Lordship” – can a person really say, No, Lord”?]